The porn addict is a hooker's worst nightmare. They have been inundated with unrealistic images of women, & tend to be hypercritical when women in real life don't 'measure up' to the manufactured & often enhanced porn illusion. Porn addicts also have twisted beliefs about women's behaviour & motives, thanks to industry brainwashing. 

 

These are the guys who think that most women actually like being called every filthy name under the sun during the sex act, in addition to having their hair pulled & asses repeatedly slapped with force. Even more disturbing is the trend in modern porn towards 'gagging' scenes, where a guy manages to cause the woman to 'gag' (ie., nearly throw up) on his cock. This is usually now accompanied by the ultimate malovent act of mysogyny - choking. 

 

These are the blokes who want to fuck from the moment they enter the booking until the buzzer. Even then, some of these funsters want to keep plowing away after the bell. They figure that if they don't get multiple orgasms as part of a standard service, they have been ripped off. These are two types of people who fall into this category. The 1st consists of men who who have either had a history of premature ejaculation, or who have difficulty achieving orgasm. 

 

The 2nd category comprises men/boys who have bought the whole porno myth, which states that sex is all about mechanics. They believe that you haven't had a good time until you have ticked off several positions from your Aspiring Pornstar clipboard.  They also believe that women started having boob jobs in the industry simply in response to an outcry for more silicone Spanish. A more colourful description of sex I've heard touted by this group is 'cocks in holes'.

 

 

Both groups have lost sight of the most basic tenet of all - intimacy. Sex is about intimacy, not the million positions & the money shot. It saddens me when I encounter young boys who have been raised on the L.A porn myth. They have completely lost the plot when it comes to having great sex, because they were never presented with it in the first place. 

 

 

It's interesting to note that many hookers who do bookings with porn addicts end up reporting these men for disrespectful &/or violent behaviour. Of these men, the vast majority display such hostility &or violent tendencies towards the WL right from the outset of the booking. The upshot is that there was little the menaced WL could do to prevent the incident, other than not doing the booking in the first place.

 

 

Another trend prevalent in bloody American porn is pain, humiliation & degradation of women as part of the sex act. Cum-on-face is all about power, just like anal & DP. It's about subjectation of the female. 

 

 

A prime example is a gonzo scene I saw recently. Anonymous hands held the head of a frightened teenager like a vice. Props used to enhance the girl's appearance of extreme youth - cheerleader's uniform, white cottontail panties, long pigtails in plastic hair barrettes, bobby socks, & a teddy bear protruding from her pastel pink backpack - are littered throughout the scene. The main gist of this segment was to demonstrate how the cowed & chasitised teen is thoroughly degraded by having some big African-American unload a beercan's-worth of cum on her face & in her mouth.

 

 

Where did all this start? Where is it all leading? Why are we allowing it to continue? Women are as guilty as men of allowing this abomination to be condoned. Whilst women mightn't be construed as the aggressors within the situation, they certainly are complicit through their involvement. It's not as though women can even excuse their involvement by claiming that they are repressed & ignorant of their choices. Today, women have the ability to make educated, informed decisions than at any other point in history.

 

 

This leads us to perhaps the most important & perplexing question of all - why do we continue to allow this cultural blight to stain our society? Why aren't we actioning the depiction of sex in a way that is arousing, respectful, & mutually enjoyable? Why do women need to be degraded, hurt & humiliated in order for porn to be effective? What sort of people enjoy watching this happen to women? Who are we making porn for, anyway?

 

 

God only knows. If he's not available, then Ron Jeremy will do...