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I Suck In Bed


HollyInGriffith

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I would recommend her to anyone, she may call herself ‘Vanilla’, and I’ve been the rainbow and back, but I would take this ‘vanilla’ lady any day or night.

The surface may have been calm but underneath, well, I thought I could lose some fingers, so strong was her reaction. She has delightful internal muscle control.

 

What a delight and a wonderful break in my day, she is a beautiful lady in every sense of the word, love the smile she has permanently on her face and that little giggle she makes when she’s had an orgasm, she has the cutest ass, which I took full advantage of and those natural breasts that fit perfectly into the palm of my hands. I went at her with everything I had and she seemed be love it!

 

It is worth booking her and just lying back and watching her work on you from above and feel that great sensation as she slides up and down your cock whilst watching her athletic body bounce up and down.

 

Yep, thats right.. i totally rock in bed

The above are some comments left by some lovely clients I have seen in the last year and again, i totally rock in bed LOL.

 

I rock in bed....when I am working... but,

 

I suck in bed when im off duty and having "normal" unpaid sex.

 

I SUCK IN BED? WTF? How is this possible? How can someone who is paid for sex for a living, someone who can make a man cum with her mouth, her hand or her punani..how can someone like that be bad in bed on her day off???

 

Two words - Me Sex

 

Yep, "Me Sex" has fucked me up. Working in the industry has made me a terrible lover outside of a booking.

 

It wasnt always like this.

 

When I first started as Working Lady, i soon realised that even tho i was having lots of sex at work, it wasnt always mind blowing awesome sex, and after a long week of bad to "just ok" to sometimes excellent shags, i would long for sex where instead of worrying that their needs 100%, finally mine would be! So i was always looking for new fuck buddies. Someone i could have non-paid naked time, not have to worry, relax, unwind, let loose, not looking at the clock, not having to worry if they were getting their moneys worth, not following a routine of any kind.... just enjoying the moment!

 

But the fuckbuddies werent working out. I couldnt verbalise what it was i wanted .. cos i didnt really know and i found myself doing the work motions outside of work.

 

I always put the condom on for them..then giving them a BJ... then lubing them up and jumping on top of them cowgirl style... just like at work... i had dominance of the situation, they were waiting for my direction, just like at work, i had to take the lead. And if i saw them more than once, i was expected to take the lead every time! I think after the first time i set a precedent that they were forever expecting.....this isnt what i was looking for. I wanted THEM to be the dominant one, them to take the lead, them to start, them to have their hands on me getting me in the mood....... not me doing everything for them!

 

There was no real thrill or enjoyment with them.. it had lost its fun..... but i didnt stop looking....

 

Then i came across a client who blew me away sexually. In the booking, he was all about me me me.. meaning ME! He was a very VERY giving lover and took me to the stars and back. I had finally found the one! So we started an arrangement, he no longer had to pay to see me and i got some fantastic me sex.

 

He would come late at night, be the last booking so we could get messed up and have a good time. In the parlour i was working it was quite busy so i might have seen 5-10 clients over a 15hr shift, a few drinks and i would be exhausted. But he would do things to me... omg.. my eyes would close with every touch.. he had total control... one touch and i was putty in his hands...

 

For the first time in forever i had found the kind of sex i love most. Its not nice to admit it, but i am a selfish lover. (wait, except when im drunk and then im kinda more aggressive and into doing different things lol)

 

But now a few years later, ive been told that i suck in bed and I dont make enough effort. Fair call. I dont disagree.... but it was like this from the beginning...i havent changed..maybe thats the problem?

 

Now i have to figure out how to bring a little bit of work sex stuff into outside work sex and do it without it feeling like a chore... how do i do that? i have no freakin idea. Ive been accustomed to a certain standard and expectation of sex for over 2yrs. Its a hard habit to break. And well, i dont have all that much sex out of work these days, so when i finally do, i just wana lay back enjoy it....

 

Damn you selfish me! How could you have let this happen? When did you become a lazy root? You enjoy pleasing men, why has it become like a chore?

 

So ok im off to think of ways i can improve my own sex life. I can make other peoples fabulous, not a problem, but in my own i am lacking.....wtf kind of hooker am i?

 

Im a bloody good hooker, but a terrible fuckbuddy/girlfriend/wife LMAO :)

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Holly, reading this, the first thing that popped into my mind is the "Doctor makes the worst patient".

 

I would have naively thought you would have no end of possible suitors prepared to look after your out of work requirements.

 

Great read :)

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Hey Holly,

 

From the first outset of "me" sex let the guy know that you want/need him to take control when it comes to sex (only sex though lol) as that is what you crave.

 

If he doesn't then you know it will not work out and you look for the next one.

 

This will create the passion that you need. By having someone relying on you to take control takes you back to work mentally.

 

Then if he does not take control, well then he is not pushing your buttons which you stated is what you need from the beginning. Then he can not likely say you suck in bed as he is not the one making the effort which you need - as a result he actually sucks in bed.

 

Also whats the old saying - a builder never finishes his own home. Its the work mentallity again - something has to change to take away the thought of it being work or a chore.

 

Just my 2 cents worth

 

Cheers

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HollyInGriffith

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lol yes you have a point... i need to vocalise what i want more.. but isnt it funny, in a booking i can tell a man what i like and when to do it... outside of a booking, i get kinda shy and tongue tied and... nervous ... lmao... who would have thunk it? laugh.gif

 

Drewboy, there are quite a few who are willing ti offer their services... but they also want more than just a bit if fun in the sack.. and well.. i love shaggin.. i dont like relationship naggin lol laugh.gif

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Here's one who will offer his services to get you back on the straight and narrow Hols. ;)

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Great Blog Holly.

 

I have been a regular punter for probably the last 2 or 3 years & I kinda have the same attitude with the Wls I see. Not so much as i want them to take control (although I enjoy that) but in the sense that I have a certain standard now that I 'expect I guess. After seeing girls like KR, LCE, Kimber Slone, Carmel Moore to name a few I find my expectation is now so much higher.

 

I used to be happy to pay my $200 for a quick shag and my level of expectation was totally different. Not just looking for bland sex. I want exciting sex with hot girls who know how to please, how to be sexy, how to be slutty when required, how to be sensual, how to be cute etc etc etc.

 

I dont want a fuck buddy cause that can lead to more complications - just the BEST ladies in the business who can do it for me & in return i totally get off on BOTH of us having a good time so I always put in an effort to try to make the time enjoyable for her.

 

We as punters can search for the ladies that will make the sparks fly for us sexually. For the ladies we seek this is what they aspire to offer their clients so there will always be a greater effort & focus on US. I think if I were looking for that in a GF or fuck buddy it could be a difficult thing to find. I have had sex with a lot of non WLs in my single days & i must say whether casual sex or serious relationship maybe 1 or 2 in 10 could really make it happen for me to the point that I couldnt wait to see her again because the sex was that good.

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Depends how important this man is to. Sounds like he is taking the Arrangement for granted or getting complacent. He knew what he was signing up for....it'd ruin it for you if you have to service him. Tell him if he wants that's has to pay for it again ;) That'll shut him up. He is a shag buddy; he should know his place, he isn't your boyfriend or partner and he is getting sex for free.... No really in any postion to be making demands.

 

Call his bluff, the person in a relationship who cares least has the most power and he has figured he has more becaus he has skills you crave. Turn the tables around. Go your separate ways for a few months and see how much you suck then when his wallet starts hurting again!

 

I used to have serveral bonk buddies before working. I'd say it was always 30/70 - 70 my way and was pretty lazy. I like the pull and throw but my Favourite was just laying back and bending over and me being serviced. Making out and oral sex for hours, without all the taking lead and timing you have to do with worl. In work you're there to please, now after work the last thing I want to be doing is fussing over someone else. It's hard to find as I got rid of my wild ways when I started working as I was getting enough from work.

 

I don't think I'd be that keen on sex outside of work in anything other then a serious relationship because the last thing I want to do is have conversations about who gets the most attention and all that crap. Less mentally draining to buy some batteries and have fantasies.

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Btw loved the blog what you say is so bloody true! You can only have so much energy

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love the blog and have seen it and been apart of it with someone before. someone in your position with me that is. for me it was chemistry thing and i like to start the lovn so it worked well. find a man that just loves women for a start but not a wimpy man but a nice and naughty one. if he makes the first moves you know hes going to be the one we can only hope. its about a chemistry and commonality( if thats a word) with a view to the same goals. its freakn awesome when it works and sometimes even better than having a partner because you get the whole bed to sleep in afterwards. lol.

 

keep searching holly we are out there...!!!!!!

 

cb

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Hmm Holly great blog and a very revealing and honest insight into your life. I think it happens in all work lives I have had times when I just go through the motions of work and then get home and nothing seems to be right. As far as sex goes yes w/ls can assist me with getting my rocks off and stars etc. but the woman I loved could do it with a touch just as you say. I did my homework so when I was with her I could offer her something and I sought new ideas and attempted to add to the time but alas it was not to be. My point! Well I think we can grow complacent taking what we can get and if we get it too often we tend to take it for granted. My suggestion might be to keep one special thing just for you something no client ever sees or gets or whatever and this can be the key to your Punani getting wet. As an example it might be that you like having your index finger sucked so keep that to yourself and when your lover does it you will immediately click to ME sex. I'm no psychologist but it works for me. Good luck!

 

 

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