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Fakeness, Respect and ass-kissing


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I have had conversations and exchanges with a particular working girl who is a member of PP which i find disturbing.

 

She has dissed and talked badly about everyone. She disses receptionists, cops, overweight people and practically everyone but then she acts really nice to everyone's faces but disses them to me.

 

 

One comment she made to me was "I am aiming SO high by being the phone bitch/pick up the cum towells in a brothel"

 

There is many people on here who joined who are receptionists. Hellsbells, bunni etc and there are many punters out there who are overweight and there is also people out there who work in law enforcement. I am fine with people dissing me personally to my face, But when A person especially a WL starts dissing others for no reason. It really makes me sad. I mean why talk about receptionists and diss receptionists like that? What makes people so disrespectful in the first place?

 

I do believe in respecting everyone despite peoples age, race, weight, what they do and how much money they have. Hey iam a sex worker. Who am i to judge when the general population. General public think what i do for a living is the lowest of all low and who is she to judge?

 

 

You don't know what a anyone is going through. They can be a depressed person and comments like that can push a depressed person over the edge leading to suicide. You never know what any person is going through. I personally believe in seeing the good in everyone and being respectful to everyone without anything in return.

 

There is also alot of ass-kissing on this forum. Why can't everyone just be themselves? why all the fakeness? Are people ashamed of being who they are?

 

Punters, We are working girls. You don't need to kiss our asses to get have sex with us. Just bring your wallet with you. Hence why i don't get the ass-kissing from punters to WL's on here. It's not like u need to impress us to have sex with us. You can just be yourself.

 

I do get when WL's kiss ass though. Majority of WL's do this for money so they know the more kiss ass they do. the more bookings they might get. For me.. I struggle to kiss ass.. I never can act fake. I have alot of trouble lying to people and i have alot of trouble acting fake. when i am nice to you and nice to people. I genuinely am nice to you. it's not for a booking. However WL's who ass-kiss and act fake stink of desperation to me. I just wish everyone can just act themselves and respect everyone. Is that s hard?

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Femmebot, the truths that you have highlighted here are threads that run through all workplaces, social settings and communities (both physical and virtual).

 

Disingenuous people are everywhere and they practice insincerity for all number of reasons. Some seek the approval of others, some seek monetary gain and some denigrate others to enhance their own sense of self worth (the latter being the reason I believe most people run others down, particularly behind the relative safety of a turned back).

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Don't they say that the mark of a truly great individual is not what they say to or about people in their presence, but what they say of and about them in their absence?

 

A though provoking post that will quite possibly ruffle a few feathers.

 

Thanks for posting this and keepin' it real Femme.

 

WG

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I'm definetley not fake or an ass kisser! Phewwww!

Cross Hannah of this particular list! Lol

 

Name and shame her! Yeahhhh, do it!

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Welcome to the industry Femmebot :angry:. If during your time in the industry you find a handful of genuine friends you are doing well . I would suggest not to publicly name her unfortunately it will become a he said she said . Maybe a quiet pm to the people she is rubbishing would see a better result . I hate two faced bitches with a passion ...

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Just let it go through to the keeper Femme . Some people are just naturals to have vinegar and piss running through their veins

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I agree with OF. Femme, there's an old saying in politics - if you want a real friend, get a dog. The same likely applies in the adult industry.

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I agree with OF. Femme, there's an old saying in politics - if you want a real friend, get a dog. The same likely applies in the adult industry.

I've been working in a brothel for 5 yrs and only encountered this on here.

Funny thing is you can put 10 different girls in a shift in a brothel. Put them all in the same room and all competing for the same jobs and it's still not as fake and disrespectful as it is on here.

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Gabrielle Káigh

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I'm not fake - if I don't like someone, I say it straight to their face.

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Point taken Femme, a little cynical of me. The relative anonymity of the web does seem to be seen by some as a license to behave pretty poorly. It's a feature of the online world we could all do without.

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It's a battle that's been fought and lost in many walks of life, & will continue to be waged in future... again, to no avail. This industry depends on smoke & mirrors. It's the subjective nature of fantasy. Some people like it laid on thicker than others, & some people pull it off more convincingly than others in way of reply.

 

With the exception of my steely 'inner circle' - & those within it know who they are! ;) :wub: - I'm pretty much my own wolfpack. Ive been burnt at the stake enough times to know that, with a few notable exceptions, the only person I will ever truly have in my corner is ME.

 

As a result, the few WLs with whom I work are a rare breed. Fewer still are those WLs whom I confide in. In this world, a girl can really need a friend... but beware those who seek to take advantage of your disadvantage. The fair-weather friend prototype can certainly seem like an industry standard! :P

 

However, I must confess this industry has gifted me with 5 of the strongest friends a vixen could ask for. Despite all the nastiness, bitchiness, betrayal & downright sabotage, I've still managed to be blessed with men & women who know every dark nook & cranny within me... & continue to love me, regardless.

 

Any journey worth taking is going to have it's high & low roads. How interesting it all turns out to be depends only on how much you take in along the way. ;)

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Hmmm...

Devil's Advocate here?

 

While on the face of it, I get your concerns, and they are mostly justified and warranted....

I can't help but remember though when you were new, and people were talking like this about you in whispers, some nice, some not nice.

 

There are some pearlers and some gems in this world..

I guess it's just where you want to "sit" in the stands.

 

I'm just wondering how you would have "fit" in this world if instead of hushed whispers to friends and colleagues, someone directed a blog at you.

 

There is a fineline between being outraged and telling everyone your thoughts, and doing exactly the same thing with the "best of intentions".

 

In all walks of life we encounter there are good people, bad people, and people we'll never know.

Watch, listen, learn..

 

But I'm not so supportive of the "publicly have a go at them"...

As I'm sure the person you have spoken to is well aware of who you are discussing.

 

If it were you..

What would your response be?

 

Just food for thought I guess...

Me, I'll go a cheeseplatter with some pate... mmmm ...

*winks*

 

Kell

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#### PLEASE NOTE I AMENDED THE LAST PARAGRAPH BECAUSE I WAS CONCERNED IT MADE ME SOUND LIKE I WAS CALLING FEMME A BITCH... I WASN'T.. I WAS MERELY POINTING SHE WAS TALKING TO THE WRONG PEOPLE HERE, AND THAT A LOT OF THE GALS AREN'T LIKE THAT. I WANTED TO MAKE SURE THAT WAS CLEAR. PLEASE CONTINUE ####

 

OH... LOL....

 

AND...

 

I love that the punters here asskiss the girls..

I am in this world because I love men, and I love adoring men...

It makes me feel sexy, powerful, all of those things when they flirt and banter with me..

I just prefer mine to be in PM... *giggles*..

 

And yes, please bring your wallet to my booking, cos I'm pay to play gal..

But you also better bring your excitement, your genuine enthusiasm and nervousness, and most of all..

Bring your suave and sexy...

 

Money opens the door yes..

But you gotta have style and finesse to hit the bonus levels...

I'm all about emotions and sensations...

 

It's always better when I have a session with an interested, excited, slightly awestruck punter who has been chasing me for ages, has read my reviews and I've already been masturbated over at least once.. *giggles*...

And they've told me so...

 

I get that there is over the top, people who just fawn for the sake of fawning...

But your blog makes it sound a little cold and clinical for my liking..

Not all of us roll that way.. and we have playmates who will happily attest to that...

I reckon you're mingling with the wrong crowd Femme..

LOL..

 

How did you end up in the "Bitchy Judgmental Escorts" stands? You are so talking to the wrong people!!!

Did you get lost?

The "Desirable Goddesses for Hire" stands is the other way..

And they're way cooler, trust me...

 

Kell

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Like Paris said, two faced bitches are rife in this industry. Welcome to the real industry, past the ass kissing and all the lovely platitudes. :lol:

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Xx Cristal-hotbabe xX

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Great read xxxx

 

I've been stung many times along the way. For me I just get on with my business and let everyone else argue by themselves lol.

Do what you have to do and don't let anyone stand in your way. Strive to be the best you can be, and smile, it's contagious lol

 

 

Xx Cristal Hotbabe xX

 

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I've been both stung by the same, and been guilty of it as well,.

 

These days i find nothing more empowering than knowing that I have the ability to stop a conversation dead in its tracks, when I enter a room.

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Femmebot, the truths that you have highlighted here are threads that run through all workplaces, social settings and communities (both physical and virtual).

 

 

 

Disingenuous people are everywhere and they practice insincerity for all number of reasons. Some seek the approval of others, some seek monetary gain and some denigrate others to enhance their own sense of self worth (the latter being the reason I believe most people run others down, particularly behind the relative safety of a turned back).

 

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Don't they say that the mark of a truly great individual is not what they say to or about people in their presence, but what they say of and about them in their absence?

 

 

 

A though provoking post that will quite possibly ruffle a few feathers.

 

 

 

Thanks for posting this and keepin' it real Femme.

 

 

 

WG

 

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Couldn't have said it better

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