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Frustrating is one world to describe dating....


RiK

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Anyone who's been chatting to me in the last 2-3 months knows that I've began to change a path back to the real world and a part of that is getting a genuine girlfriend...

 

Well........I digress

 

Dating is a frustrating game... I've dated about 4-5 women now (from E-harmony and RSVP, I've also joined a dating club) and I can see why a lot of men turn to WL's. Not only do we have to meet a list of criteria, but add to that George Cloony looks with a endless supply of money. I've yet to find a woman who wants a normal person (what is normal these days??) Obviously us men have a lot to answer for and if we don't shape up its going to be a long life of singledom and loneliness for all of us...

 

I'm not saying women are perfect either, a couple of those that I have dated were absolute mental cases who had no idea what they wanted in a man let alone their own life, yet we continue to find ourselves in the "not wanted" category from these ladies with unrealistic expectations.

 

Now for anyone who's met me can attest that I'm no slob and I'm not a social outcast, which gets me to ask.. What the fuck is wrong with me?

 

Is it worth chasing down this path anymore...I'm getting emotionally drained from all this build up and failure, maybe the path to bliss is just to get my rocks off once a week from the ladies here who at least pretend to care about your life and concerns and get on with my life...

 

Anyway my procrastinating whinge is over. Thanks for reading

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Well Rik it is the age old problem,

when you are looking those you are interested in you run the risk of being seen as needy and demanding.

But when you are just cruising and having a good time not pay so much attention to whats around you, you suddenly find yourself in a place you didn't expect.

Someone once said to me.

Love is hard to find, but when your not looking it finds you.

 

Get out find clubs you like, do things you enjoy, hopefully where lots of ladies go and relax and enjoy, it will come to you.

 

Snowy

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