How I got into Sex Work | The story of a girl raised Christian who ended up a Whore
Entry posted by Venus Nymphs in Secrets of Venus
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"What made you start doing this work?" is a common question at the end of a service during pillow talk with my customers.
This is a bit of a tricky question for me to answer, because really i've been doing some form of sex work from a very young age.
I was in year 5 when my best friend Rosie told me about ICQ
"It's an internet chat room" she said.
Rosie was the friend my strict Christian parents were always wary of. If I was up to no good chances are Rosie was leading the way.
I still remember sitting side by side at her house listening to the dial up loading sound as she brought up ICQ chat, her mum was supposed to be watching us but what made Rosies house so fun was the lack of parental supervision.
"So what do we do?" I asked
"We talk to guys" She replied.
Logging on it didn't seem like many people using this website were pre teens like us,
The first message rolled in, it was from a user with the name Tobez
"ASL"? Appeared on the screen, Rosie informed me that meant Age, Sex, Location.
"25, Female, Australia" typed Rosie.
I was, nervous... but excited. This was kind of fun.
"What colour are your eyes" asked Tobez
I took control of the Keyboard, "Green" I replied (I always loved green eyes)
"How tall are you" he asked again
Rosie and I looked at each other, "5 foot?" Rosie said as a question
"5 foot isn't tall" I laughed, lets say 6 foot"!
"Wow, you ARE tall" replied Tobez from the other side of the screen.
then he asked it...
"Wanna Cyber?"
I looked at Rosie, "what does that mean?"
"Cyber sex, she smirked" and for the next half an hour, my eyes were opened to the world of online sex chat.
A year or so later my family finally got our own computer with an internet connection, whilst they thought I was doing my homework I would secretly be in different chatrooms talking to who fucking knows, pretending still I was in my mid 20s. I was hooked, I loved the attention, I loved making up a version of myself that could be whoever the hell I wanted it to be and, I loved getting praise for just making up silly sex stories to entertain guys. The Christian Church I was in was very strict, we were not allowed to date until 16, no sex before marriage, no drinking. When I was online I got to be whoever I wanted to be and there was no one to tell me I was bad, or doing the wrong thing.
As the internet developed and I grew with it I eventually found myself on Habbo Hotel and totally in crush with another user, a guy in Melbourne a year older than me who shared my birthday.
He encouraged me to get a webcam and I convinced my parents to let me move my computer into my bedroom. At night whilst they thought I was sleeping I would secretly masturbate on webcam for him, he would send me porn to watch before hand and we continued this type of online relationship for a significant number of years. As we got to know each other better we would have phone sex and I would get off to getting HIM off.
As the years went on things fizzled out between him and I but I would at times find myself again on webcam, masturbating for different online friends I had made in some random community somewhere.
When I was 20 I finally got the balls to leave the Church I was in and ended up in a 4 year committed real life relationship. My past internet cyber-sluttiness was never a conversation with this boyfriend and at the time I thought that was that - we would get married, have kids and live happily ever after. Of course thats not usually how life goes at that age and by 24, we were over.
By 25 I had met my still current best friend and he introduced me to the world of art and music, often this scene comes with more open minded people and I found myself discovering the intricacies of the LGBTQI scene and got into partying and found myself trying recreational drugs. It's in this scene I met Lavender. Lavender was an enigma to me, only 19 and an amazing poet studying creative writing at uni, she also told me that her and her friends did Webcam work on My Free cams for extra cash. As she described what she was doing I couldn't stop thinking to myself how that sounded exactly like what I had been doing, for FREE as a teenager.
Shortly after I signed up myself and with my literally years of experience doing the same shit as a teen I made $500 in my first two weeks. What surprised me the most was how many legitimately hot dudes I was talking to, guys I would be way too scared to approach in real life telling me I must be lying saying I would fuck them if we lived in the same city.
Eventually the novelty wore off and I stopped webcam, but I also entered a poly relationship and we found ourselves on a date with a friend of a friend i'd matched with on tinder, Penny, a massage therapist.
Upon quizzing Penny about massage over dinner she just came straight out and said, i'll be honest. I'm a sex worker!
Because of my years on the internet I had started to see the rise of out and open sex workers, shows like Secret Diary of a Call girl were popular and the creation of twitter in the 2010's had introduced me to loud and proud workers such as Grace Bellavue who sadly passed away some time ago now but was a very important part of Sex Work activism here in Adelaide and one of the first face out social media workers I can remember existing.
This was my first time meeting someone so open in real life however. I was taken a back, she was young, hot, and told us she had been in the industry for quite some time. I don't know what I was expecting a full service escort to be like but I certainly didn't realise it would be someone like Penny. Things never eventuated but as Adelaide is small we remained friends and would often see each other out and about, at parties and in different circles with mutual friends. One day I ran into her alone in the city and I told her how I had seriously been considering Sex Work, she looked me up and down for a minute and then said "you know, I think you would actually be very good as a worker, let me know if you need any advice".
That night I went home, jumped on youtube and watched every "how to become a sex worker/ escort" video I could find from aussie girls, there weren't many but what I could find were some of the most valuable insights to the industry I have been given to this day. I learned about acronyms, types of services, types of workers, private and establishment work, ugly mugs, the good shit and the bad. That was it, I was gonna do it.
Except I didn't, I chickened the fuck out and pushed the thought away for a year.
One day I was looking for Acid and my friend mentioned to me there was connections in some local Adelaide Discord groups. I found myself invited to some private groups where people would advertise product. But every now and then I would also see private escorts posting offering up their services, these girls impressed me. They weren't afraid to put themselves out there in a group of dealers and held their own whenever anyone would hassle them, they stuck up for each other and they also very clearly, got a shit ton of work from Discord. I decided it was now or never, found some of my favourite nudes and posted my own post. I was super nervous, as a BBW girl I didn't feel like anyone would wan't to pay to fuck me but holy shit was I wrong. It only took a few minutes before I had over 20 messages from guys telling me how hot I was, how hard I made them and how much money they had to splash on me. In my first week working I made 3k. I was blown away. Not only was the money good but Sex Work came naturally to me, I enjoyed making people feel good, I enjoyed doing something seen as taboo and I enjoyed fucking.
As time would go on I would end up advertising across various Escort websites and that was yet another experience. Most of the guys seeing me from discord were my age or younger, but the clients I would see from the proper websites tended to be a little older. Men in their 30's all the way up to their 80s. Still, I loved it and I knew at this point I would likely be in and out of the Sex Work industry for a very long time.,
Fast forward 3 years and I have gone from Discord Ho, to private working girl and now to being in an establishment and offering outcalls. Whilst all these types of sex work have their differences there is still a similarity between each one and I love learning everything I can about all aspects of this industry. Who knows how long i'll be here for this time or what the future holds for me as a Sex Worker but what I do know is I fucking love it, I love attending to my praise kink and being compensated for the hard work I put in to ensure a good experience. If I could go back I would do it all over again.
Venus x 
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