Sex is an Energy Transfer | Why Sex Workers May Insist on Covered Sex
One of the most common requests we get as an escort is if we will offer bareback blow jobs and if we offer natural, condomless sex.
Whilst some (but not many) workers certainly may offer a bareback blow job as an extra, natural sex or as some punters like to call it "fluid exchange" is definetly not an industry standard.
Aside from the normal concerns of STDs and thus potential loss of income for the two weeks a worker needs to take antibiotics, risk of transferring something to a client or even worse, a life long sexually transmitted disease a lot of us understand that sex is a literal energy exchange.
Like the video I've posted in this tweet states, if we could see someone's soul we certainly wouldn't just be sleeping with anyone. As sex workers it is up to us to pick and choose who we do sexual energy exchange with and condoms offer us some protection from this type of exchange.
As punters this energy exchange should also be an issue of concern. Whilst in a horny moment the idea of bareback natural sex might be enticing, I personally would always be cautious about who you choose to do this with.
When looking for this type of service your best luck is going to be with a worker you see regularly, someone who is comfortable withyou with a level of trust involved. Natural uncovered full service sex is a big deal to most civvie women so you can understand that it may be an even bigger deal to a girl familiar with sex, someone who gets tested often and understands the intricacies of how natural sex can affect us emotionally and someone who is responsible for the sexual safety of herself and clients.
Something that isn't talked about much in this industry is the importance of supporting survival sex workers (sex workers who rely on this job as their only form of income) in their choices. There can be a lot of shaming between workers about who does what, why they do it and how much they charge but at the end if the day some workers have families to support, bills to be paid and are responsible for their own bodies and what they decide to do with them.
When seeking or offering natural sex just remember what someone looks like and/or acts like might not be who they actually are on the inside. Do you really want to be exchanging energy with a soul sucker?
Your body, your choice. But be careful 👁