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Scarlett B Wilde

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On 25/06/2020 at 5:07 PM, pornorun said:

How do you ladies get into the mood when you're not feeling horny when you wake up on any particular day but have to 'work' regardless? (*question does not apply to johns as we are always horny*)

 

A question that is asked a lot hence I thought I'd address it in a post which is easily accessed.

I've said this many times that despite being a business transaction it is two human beings coming together and that needs to be respected also. 
 

I get it - 45 years old. 1 hour booking. BJ and FS. If you got that booking you'd be like " Well.. I'm hardly dripping like a tap right now".

 So when a clients walks in the door I am happy to see them, yet a power play can kind of develop in the fact that they've seen my advert, watched my videos and have a greater understanding of whom I am compared to them. This can be a little .. unsettling in some respects. And yet as a private worker it is a little more difficult to get to me than say.. a random rocking up at the brothel. This is due to the screening process. By the time a client has got my address and organised a time, he's well into what I'm am, doing and selling. They're usually really excited to see me. So for me it goes from ' 45 years old. 1 hour booking. BJ and FS ' to-

' A man frustrated by 5 years of a sexless marriage'.
' A man wishes to explore power play in a safe and pleasant environment for both '.
' A man with 2 types of cancer whom wishes to still live despite the very real chance that in 10 years he may not '.
' A crossdresser that despite being in the most manly of professions wishes to explore their gender roles in a safe and pleasant environment '

' A couple seeking to ignite a passion that neither knew they wanted '. 


So what I'm saying is that the more information I have the easier it is for me to enter a booking. This brings an element of comfort and intention for me. Am I horny ?  no.. not yet, yet I am in an environment that can support me being horny ?  Yes. I also need to look after my needs. Which are physical, emotional and mental. If I know what the client desires and wishes to experience during our time together I can pace the session looking after my physical. I can make sure I'm well rested and refreshed. I can wake up early and be alert and attentive to you if your looking for a morning rendezvous, not leaving it 45mins before you arrive dashing around like a chook with it's head cut off. 


  Having an understanding of what you wish to do prepares me mentally which only leaves the emotional.... the great female driver. 

 

I will just say that I'm constantly amazed and grateful for the clients I receive. Not every client gets a gold star ( welcome to customer service ) yet on the whole I do spend my time with delightful challenging, engaging, sexy, intelligent and lovely clients in my business. None of clients are 'monsters' nor am I ever forced to fuck undesirables for money.  The stigma of the clients unfortunately mostly comes from other clients. " I'm one of the good ones, yet I'm sure your other clients aren't very nice "  Ummmm... why ? Alas ....
 

The long and short of it is that the clients that see me, really want me. I'm not fishing for the late night pop in " BLOW AND GO " because I don't get turned on by that.
Have you any idea how incredibly intoxicating it is to organise a 'police woman' roleplay with a client and as you spread his legs to further regions you reach round to grab a hard, and I mean hard, solid cock. Knowing full well that's for me ?  My god it's ... like a drug. Now ... my lips just twinged. As he turns around and sees me in all my glory of sexiness and I look into his eyes and get a reflection of the pure desire he has for me. It's at this point I'm like an empty vessel. And the the transference of pure desire that's shooting down my spine at the moment is really .... 

 

 

 

What I'm staying is I have enough training in tantra to be that open vessel, yet it's also about my self awareness to understand what I need and then ask for it. 
I get in. Walk into a room and you only want 15 mins and you need me to be this juicy sexy slut ?    It's not really my forte sweetheart ...

Move along.  

 

 

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Hey Scarlett, this is thoughtful and thought-provoking, as always.

 

What do you mean by this: 'I have enough training in tantra to be that open vessel'?

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Scarlett B Wilde

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On 08/07/2020 at 1:38 PM, Dave Weldon said:

Hey Scarlett, this is thoughtful and thought-provoking, as always.

 

Well thank you Dave. Appreciated.
 

On 08/07/2020 at 1:38 PM, Dave Weldon said:

What do you mean by this: 'I have enough training in tantra to be that open vessel'?

 

It's kind of a broad subject yet to boil down to essence. 

Desire comes from within. While you may get excited by an image / person / object beyond yourself- you feel the desire within yourself right ? This understanding of the desire process beyond just mental, physical and emotional make it  'experiential'. Once you have this 'experience' a number of times, you can bring on states of this 'experience' at will. In other words you can place yourself in a state that is more receptive. 

Breath is a huge part of our physicality, as oxygen fuels the body. Many don't know yet -
Inhale - Blood pressure goes up
Exhale - Blood pressure goes down

So depending on your own preference you can bring about a state within your body to feel more. Hence you can heighten your sexuality.

By my sentence " .... to be that open vessel " I was stating that I can bring about my own sexual desire and am not dependant on outside stimulation, hence a client that wishes to have a booking more about themselves can, and still be with another whom is sexual aroused as well. 
By open I was kind of saying 'independent'.

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22 hours ago, Scarlett B Wilde said:

I can bring about my own sexual desire and am not dependant on outside stimulation

 

I've done some tantra myself, but so far, outside stimulation is still paramount! I'll work on the breath. Thanks for your reply. 

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I got scammed $100 dollars extra for a tantric service as a newbie many years ago, found it to be somewhat ott and kinda fake just like those who claim to be able to squirt but piss all over the place instead.

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On 12/07/2020 at 9:37 PM, Vitesse said:

I got scammed $100 dollars extra for a tantric service as a newbie many years ago, found it to be somewhat ott and kinda fake just like those who claim to be able to squirt but piss all over the place instead.

 

Saddened to hear that, yet tantra isn't something you do to someone. Hence you can't just lie there and expect to experience. It's about your ability to feel into yourself, and what the other is offering- hence sounds like it's not for you.

 

Squirt - Again comes down to education. Only about 6-10% of vagina owners can squirt.
I for instance don't and have never claimed I can. 

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Hamster31

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This is a very informative post. Thanks.

what are your 3 favourite gifts a client has given you? 

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