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It started with a sore back


Zed42

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You know it's funny, I'd never thought i would even consider paying for sex as a younger man. But trying to live "a good life," and constantly doing the right thing hasn't gotten me very far. So I now look at myself and see a man who will never look that good again, god it's depressing.  But it didn't strike me that way till recently.  

So i don't punt.... yet. But i see how when i look at my last few weeks. 

After a bit of hard work in the back yard one weekend, I had a gap in my appointments one Tuesday afternoon.  My back was killing me, (if you're 40 and carrying 15kg that you shouldn't be, you know how I feel,) and i spy a thai massage clinic. You know the ones, nice looking bali pictures in the window, but just an old deli shop converted into something else. I see that i can claim it on my health insurance so I ask the lady when can i get a back massage? Come back in a half hour I'm told, so i do. Honestly I'm feeling naughty more for skipping work than anything else, but the massage goes the way i expected, relieved my pain, clinically and without fuss. So when I ring a fortnight later to indulge in the same type of pain relief, i was disappointed there were no appointments to match my window. So i had a quick look online for a similar service nearby, finding one quickly. I got an appointment at the right time, for the same amount too. When i got there I could have sworn it was the same place! Until i walked into the room to get ready. I was led into the room by a short, slim, late 40s asian lady. The room was a bit dimmer but otherwise the same as I'd seen before. She says "you take off everything, I come back." I'm sure it's a language thing and strip to my jocks and climb on the table and wait. She came back a minute later and says "no everything better for massage," catching me a little offside. Not one to fuss, i drop my underwear and get back on the table. She begins like i expect, with a couple if variations, tiger balm which stings the fuck out of you when you don't expect it for one. She works my back well for a bit, even gets up and walks on my back. I'm enjoying this and its helping the back pain relief.  Then she starts on my legs. Taking her time as at least one of them I'm feeling calf strain, she picks it and works on it hard without me even telling her. As she works up my legs the towel gets removed, and i get why I'm naked, undies would have been drenched in oil otherwise. So she works my glutes and lower back, which is still relaxing as hell and not erotic in the slightest, and she starts a little small talk. "You got a nice ass," she says, which I've had with most women, I was quite the athlete body wise and have still got some redeeming features.  I thank her, and she keeps working my legs. As I'm relaxing I noticed her paying a lot more attention to my upper legs and ass, and my mind starts to comp to the idea... is she? Her fingers brush really close to my asshole and at least once she caressed my balls in a manner that left me no doubt of her intentions.  She asks me to turn over, and half horny already, (and mildly shocked my health fund was covering this,) I comply. I'm half hard as I lie down and she makes a noise like, " ooooooh, someone's happy," to which I have no fucking idea what to do, so i shut up and lie down. She begins half heartedly doing my chest and arms all while staring at my cock. Then she lean's in and whispered, " you want?" motioning a hand job motion. Now I'm married, but through circumstance have been without for many years (not my wifes fault.) I though for a second and said nothing. She then says "fifty dollar," which snaps me out of it. "No thanks," I smiled, but this doesn't seem to deter her. She has a hand on my chest and the other on my leg, and it doesn't seem long before she's working her way to the engorged area again. I'm not prepared to pay an older asian lady for a bloody hand job, but I'll be damned if I'm going to stop one happening gratis. She starts in earnest now, actual massage now giving way to a wank. Im now starting to understand it's not her first time. My mind briefly considers how many men has she done this to, but it's really hard to concentrate when you're getting expertly pulled. She looks at my face and motions for me to be quiet, had i been making noise? As I rose, i forgot about work, i forgot about back pain, i forgot about not having sex for 10 years. Hell i barely notice my hand running up and down her ass, (not bad for an older lass,) until it finds its way under her dress. At this stage I'm about to duck a finger inside her panties when I wrestle control back from my dick. My hand leaves her ass, i sit up and stop her. The wank is pretty damn good, but she honestly doesn't do much for me, and I'm not sure I want to know where this ends. So I say sorry, i just can't.  Nervous. She smiles and says ok, and just like that the service goes back to a clinical massage. So it finished with a pat down and head rub, which was great, but I left half horny. 

So this has been on my mind now for weeks, as it highlighted part of my life lacking. I keep finding myself looking at the RnT sites, and reading reviews, and damn if I'm not hiding a bit of cash away each week to find an hour at a parlor soon. Im just praying it's not gonna be wasted on some woman who doesn't enjoy it as much as i do. Well, praying might be a stretch.

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I fantasized from a young age about paid sex and finally relented when nearly 40 after around 19 years in a relationship. It had over the years become more and more to the point where it was almost an obsession. You can only live a good life and do the right thing for so long before you crack.

Now I'm at the point where I've met  a WL I intend to spend the rest of my life with after we fell in love. This was all very unintentional.                                                                                                                              You have been a saint to have gone 10 years without and without going into details about your wife I would hope she would approve of you getting some somewhere!

Be aware that once you start you will probably be unable and or unwilling to stop.

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It has been thought provoking at the least. I love my wife, and don't want her hurt in any way, best decribe it as asexual. I've managed without for many years, it's not the sex i miss, it's the feeling I've turned on someone else. I love feeling a woman being turned on by something i did. So I'm sure i can manage that without actual sex, but i want it to stay at that, nsa.

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10 years ! Aaahhh !

 

Your wife may well assume you're doing something and happy enough not to delve. this is quite common as is wives telling hubbies to go elsewhere as required. 

 

You you have to decide whats right for you but remember NSA is the name of the game and you'll be able to keep loving your wife as much if not more. FS is available at many RnTs but brothels tend to work out better for that. 

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CaptainDarling

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Oh dear. Your wife may have no use for you cock but I'd bet the farm she doesn't want anyone else playing with it either - either a lover or a paid service provider....

 

And I'm not sure why do you need to define your love for your wife in terms of mainly pleasing her and bringing her pleasure? Does she define her marriage as as making sure you are sexually satisfied and fulfilled on every occasion? I'm guessing not.

 

Love is a pretty big thing, but sexual gratification is essentially a selfish thing, and nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. Go have some quality time with your sexuality, before old age, poverty or medications etc take away the opportunity.

 

Read reviews to get good value for money.

 

Massage with a happy ending is a hobby for rich idiots these days. If you want to save money, go to a brothel and see a well reviewed worker at approx $210/hour

 

Massage you need to pay a door tax of approx $65, and that's even if there are no extras available. A clothed HJ will typically cost $50, she takes clothes off - more etc. She only rubs you for 45 mins before grabbing your penis and a 45min rub usually costs $50. So $50 for massage and $50 for a ten minute HJ from a shy girl or an old boiler that's seen far too many cocks in her time. Lol 

 

For $120 you could be having sex with a hottie ie an extra $20 for sex if you see a sex specialist instead of a back rub specialist.

 

If giving pleasure lights your fire more than sexy fun times, maybe do a massage course and learn how to pamper someone properly...

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It’s very hard to find agood sex specialist for 120 in Sydney. If you know any place please share with us.

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On 03/04/2018 at 2:12 PM, Eric Shun said:

or an old boiler that's seen far too many cocks in her time. Lol 

 

I thought it was old Broiler as in meat chook.

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You can find some absolutely beautiful young women for $250/30min but honestly if you want  mind blowing experiences higher class ladies are def worth the money. I do have to echo TJ Ruff's statement though, stopping is near impossible, it can become an addiction.

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Midnight Marauder

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On 27/05/2018 at 10:50 PM, syrrruppp said:

You can find some absolutely beautiful young women for $250/30min but honestly if you want  mind blowing experiences higher class ladies are def worth the money. I do have to echo TJ Ruff's statement though, stopping is near impossible, it can become an addiction.

+1 to this and @TJ Ruff

 

Im in an relationship where its become almost a friendship.. in love but lack of sex.. ive resorted to punting and the experiences are great but addictive.. as much as i enjoy the perks, if i can stop i would. Or at least make it a once in a blue moon thing.

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3 less than great attempts,  1 half decent.....  maybe I've broken the damn thing....

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Something missing in my relationship... the physical stuff. The attraction of punting is enormous. As an older guy, picking a younger partner after intros is a huge turn on.

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Very similar thing happened to me. In my 50s, in love with wife, but we'd been 10 years without sex. And never thought I'd go to sex workers. Then, out of horniness and curiosity, went to the Thai massage place nextdoor to my gym. It had a rear entrance, so I was pretty sure it was R n T. Fantastic massage, body slide and HE by lovely girl. Left feeling elated. That experience brought my sexual side to the fore again, and I soon graduated to escorts. 

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