"Hiring a sex professional is the same as hiring any other professional, like a doctor, lawyer, or auto mechanic. You pay them money for a service. It doesn't matter what the service is: if you're nice to the professional, you generally get a better result than if you aren't. I treat sex professionals the same way I treat other professionals I hire. And like other professionals in my life, these women treat me as a valued customer and may even become friends of mine. They look forward to seeing me again, the same way any other professional likes to see their good clients come around.
Escorts offer a variety of companionship services, from just someone to talk with to someone to have sex with. These women make a living from their jobs just like women who have other jobs do. So, yes, they are doing it for the money. But that's just their occupation. When you hire a mechanic to fix your car, the mechanic is doing it for the money too. It's the same thing. Your mechanic may be your friend as well and he may enjoy working on your car because you're a good customer. The same kind of relationship can be established with your escort. If you become a "regular," you will get to know each other and know what you like to do together -- and you will enjoy it more."
So yes, like any other working man or woman I, for the most part, thoroughly ENJOY being an escort. It is something that I have personally chosen to do later in life (well, by "later", I mean early to mid-20's).
In doing this I was able to live out the life experiences I believe necessary for me to fully grasp the adult entertainment industry AS an adult. Without giving away too much, these broadly include university, travel and living abroad.
I have experienced many pleasures and believe it or not they have far outweighed the negative bookings I've had.
In fact, in about 3 years of doing this I have literally had ONE time where I was in a considerable amount of danger and that was very early in my career when I was a young, eager, bright eyed and bushy tailed little girl who didn't see aaaaanything wrong with catching a taxi to a mans apartment at 3am and couldn't possibly see how anything could go wrong when she let her pride get the better of her and decided to argue the point that is IS her in her ad pics, despite the gentleman being extremely high and highly erratic.
Needless to say though, you learn VERY quickly the signs of a safe situation vs a dangerous one and arguing with an erratic man high on drugs at 3 am - then going through with the booking expecting it will end well despite warning him he probably won't cum?
That's so far in the danger zone even Kenny Loggins turned the hell around and drove back.
(ha, get it?.....danger....zone)
***resisting urge to post 30 Sterling Archer memes****
You play it smart and you are perfectly safe. Well, in Australia & Canada anyway.
Here are a few things I am thankful for from the adult industry:
- I am thankful that I have a deeper understanding of myself and the world,
- I am grateful that I have learned to love the skin I am in and now walk taller, prouder and independently,
- I am grateful that I was able to discover that I DO like receiving oral sex and have had many, MANY orgasms from this,
- I am grateful for the appreciation, trust and care showed by clients who have poured out their feelings and emotions and often have offloaded some pretty deep things and have then been open to listening to my input on it respectfully, and finally
- I am grateful that I have met SO many wonderful men who have shown me that sex can and is enjoyable and who have told me how beautiful I am until the point where I now believe it myself.
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