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You poor punters!


frankie.is.a.whore

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I like reading reviews on here, mostly when I'm looking to change my work place. I like knowing which places frequently offer BBBJ and CIM (so I can avoid them like the plague), the average costs of extras, how many girls are on at different places and etc. I also like seeing if any of my friends have been reviewed. One common complaint you punters seem to make is privacy. I think you may forget or just not care that all places with street access, such as Pickwood Lodge had on Lygon st, require all us WL to enter as well :P

 

I used to be shy walking to work, whether it be on a main road or in an obvious industrial area with the only traffic for a parlour. I have since grown up! I hope you punters do, too. Nobody cares when you walk in or out of these buildings. Even if they did, they only realise it's interesting after you've disappeared and would never recognize any of you. Working at Pickwood, I began to see the walk into the building as a sort of advertisement. Instead of hiding behind sunglasses and a hat, I would make sure I was already dressed and well presented and walk boldly into the building, with no shame, but a beaming and confident smile. Perhaps some curious man was watching the entrance, working up the courage and then see how easy and fun it looks. Obviously I would never expect the punters to walk in quite so confidently as they've nothing to advertise, but we often have so much more to risk than the punters do. We manage to make our way to work, and it seems slightly disrespectful when you all whine and complain as though we don't also run the gauntlet.

 

This makes me wonder how dehumanised we are to you all. Do you ever think about these things? Do you see us as just an hour long venture or do you see us as human beings? Does it effect the way you see other women? I know some men turn to parlours as a kind of respect for women, as it would be so wrong to use them for sex, so they pay us to not have to think of us as human. I find it strangely comforting.... Although I should be horribly offended at being seen as an object, I think it's a huge step in the right direction. Perhaps I'm just ranting here but I am very curious at how punting can change the way a man looks at a WL or other women.

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You make several good points in your blog. The first time I booked a hotel room to see an escort I was extremely self-conscious. When I checked in I gave the person at the desk a made up story as to why I only needed the room for a few hours. In hindsight I know that he definitely saw through my lies and knew exactly why I was there. By the third time that I booked a hotel room I had become comfortable with the idea that other people knew exactly what I was up to and I really didn't care! Sometimes it just takes a little time to get used to being slightly conspicuous.

 

 

I probably can't speak for all punters but I certainly do see escorts as human beings. I see private escorts and tend to be a repeat customer once I've found someone that I like. If they are willing to share stories about their lives with me I always pay attention. By the second or third dates I usually know what my date likes to drink, what she likes to eat & where she likes to shop. This allows me to always bring a little something for us to share together or a small gift for her to show that I appreciate that she spends time with me.

 

 

I really enjoy getting to know the escorts I see. Including how they like to be massaged, where they like to be kissed and how they enjoy receiving oral!

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frankie.is.a.whore

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That is very interesting. I know escorts tend to receive more respect than parlour girls, and I certainly can't imagine the world of street walkers. Perhaps the pay grade is what garners the respect of a client? Thanks for your input!

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wanderingscribe

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Accessible entry to parlours is a concern for me. If I go to one that has a step and need help to get inside, I often feel I should wear a neon sign around my neck that says 'HELLO! GUESS WHAT? I'M GOING TO GET MY NOB POLISHED!' Discreet? Hardly.

 

If I've booked someone who can't or won't come to me and I want to see her specifically, I will suck it up (so to speak) and do what I have to. Otherwise I will make an appointment with one of my regulars and entertain them at home.

 

I like hotel rooms the few times I've used them, although some of the staff can get a little over familiar. 'How's Uncle John then, sir?' Grin, wink, nudge...

 

Like m' learned friend above, I do a lot of repeat business with a select group of professional ladies. That wouldn't happen without mutual respect, and their desires, likes and boundaries are every bit as important as mine. Yes it's an arrangement where money changes hands, but there's no reason we shouldn't both enjoy the encounter.

 

It's important to me that all the ladies I see (without whom I would 'see' none at all) feel comfortable, safe and free to be themselves around me. The more at ease and relaxed we both are, the greater the odds of a brilliant time.  

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frankie.is.a.whore

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Haha, I know the feeling of waiting on a step. Trust me :P My gripe was more with the lack of mention in the many, many mentions of this issue, to the ladies' privacy concerns :P

Escorts seem to take all the gentlemen punters! Where the chivalrous, parlour-goers at?

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One of the joys of PP is that the punters are "free" to acknowledge that we pay women for sex.

 

I find this very exhilarating. The WLs I have met through PP have mostly been very normal women who for all sorts of reasons are sex workers. Nada Felini is very outspoken about normalising the treatment of sex workers and I really enjoy her attitude about the treatment of sex workers in Australia.

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wanderingscribe

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My dear Frankie, I'm told I'm too much of a gentleman for my own good. Get thee to Adelaide and a parlour with a wheelchair ramp and I'll treat you like the Queen of Sheba.

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I know escorts tend to receive more respect than parlour girls!

I think it comes down to logistics. Most dates with a private escort are arranged ahead of time so the punter can plan to shower, shave and perhaps do some shopping prior to the punt. My dates are usually planned 3-4 weeks in advance.

 

However if a guy is drunk, wants to 'party' or have a last-minute punt on his way home from work or in the early hours of the morning, a parlour is his only option. And he's typically not well prepared.

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frankie.is.a.whore

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However if a guy is drunk, wants to 'party' or have a last-minute punt on his way home from work or in the early hours of the morning, a parlour is his only option. And he's typically not well prepared.

 

I think that holds a lot of truth. I never thought about it like that, how we're often at the end of a long night of partying and I suppose men would generally treat most women like an object after hours on the piss, vs a dinner date booked weeks in advance.

 

Thanks for the insight!

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Pickwood Lodge was never that bad to enter, as you could walk in through the first door off the street and speak to the receptionist before being let into the main building.

Being let out the front was a different matter, out the door straight onto the pavement but there was also the rear entrance, which you could be let out of and I was several times. I was also told I could use it to enter as well if I wanted to but never felt the need.

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Escorts seem to take all the gentlemen punters! Where the chivalrous, parlour-goers at?

 

I've been an escort and a private (in and out call - not in Victoria), and I'm not sure the treatment I got was much different. Parlours encourage the 'assessing a piece of meat' attitude and yes, I think it results in disrespect.

 

It's why I switched to domination and BDSM. Doing this I received nothing but respect and adulation. Anything else led to a severe beating for my sub. They learnt quickly :)

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I like to think of myself as a chivalrous parlourgoer and it mostly brings me respect and liking from the women I meet.

 

I used to be shy walking in through the front door, but then I realized that whoever knows where I'm entering has probably been there too and whoever wasn't, probably doesn't know where I'm going. So the only thing it comes to is that the house shouldn't look very conspicuous, because if it does, it's clear even from walking towards it. And that's for both the workers and the visitors. 

 

Nice thread.. ;)

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