Ok, on the home straight toward surgery and starting to do all the prep work.
Pelvic floor exercises (very big influencer on return to bladder control) now being done every day, seemed funny to think that muscle could get tired but it did. Just goes to show how weak it can be.
Going off all other medications (including natural ones) end of this week although have been living so healthy it's disgusting. Dropped nearly 7kg so far and only vices are a very strong black coffee in the morning and a couple of bottles of red on the weekend
All the paper work filled out, medibank notified, first of the bills paid.
Had some good news! My old man had the surgery last July, he's 71 and when I talked to him over the weekend he is back in the saddle and reckons he can hang a towel on it. (here's hoping it's hereditary)
3 weeks and counting to surgery.