In the twelve months I've been working as an Escort, I have had many and varied enquiries about fantasies. Some fantasies are not so far out of what I would consider to be interesting and exciting bedroom play, however, others are somewhat explicitly detailed and intricate in the way they are to be executed.
To give you an idea, some of the fantasies I have been asked to perform are:
- The client is the escort and I have employed his services
- The client wearing my lingerie including fishnets, garter belt and heels
- That I am being seduced/raped by the client
- That I am a young girl requested to wear little girls underwear
- That I am the step daughter and he the step father
- That I am to abuse the client physically and verbally - requested me to kick him in the balls over and over, step on them and tell him to lay by the front door like a dog (Submission Fantasy)
We all have our own fantasies that we secretly keep in our minds and at times imagine them being carried out, maybe just to increase your sexual mood, or to get you over the edge to the point of coming.
Having these thoughts during bedroom playtime with your partner, or when you are masturbating alone, is one thing, but to request the services of an escort to perform this in a role played situation is another.
I would like to come at this topic from two polar angles: The first will be pointing out the positives I see associated by choosing to act out the fantasy, and the other, the negatives one might firstly consider before choosing to do so.
Scenario 1: The client is the escort and I have employed his services.
Scenario 2: The client wears my lingerie including fishnets, garter belt and heels (Cross-Dressing Fantasy)
Scenario 3: That I am being raped by the client (Dominance Fantasy)
Scenario 4: That I am an underage girl requested to wear little girls underwear (Pedophile Fantasy)
Scenario 5: That I am the step daughter and he the step father (Kinky when of age/Pedophile Fantasy when not)
Scenario 6: That I am to abuse physically and verbally - requested me to kick him in the balls over and over, step on them and tell him to lay by the front door like a dog whilst telling him he is worthless etc...(Submission Fantasy)
I'll discuss only Scenarios 3, 4 & 6 here in this forum as they are the most diverse and controversial (if not to say disturbing)
Scenario 3 is a scene that is not so uncommon to be practiced by normal, healthy minded, consenting adults. The man enjoys the feeling of being dominant, in full control of the woman and the acts, and the woman is the submissive who finds enjoyment about being taken "against he will." I regard this as quite natural; human beings acting out the timeless roles where the female was inferior to the male and there to satisfy his every need. A woman was seen as an item of ownership, thus the innate desire to dominate "his woman" is generally biological present within the male genealogy so in essence he is "taking" what is rightfully his. Putting up a struggle, only adds to the excitement when being role played. The negative associated with accepting to perform this fantasy for the client is the question of whether this is encouraging/contributing to the actual rape of escorts? Your thoughts?
Scenario 4 is another category altogether. This fantasy is one I refuse to do as I consider it mentally disturbing. I find it astonishing that a man would phone me up and request this fantasy without feeling guilty of the immorality and illegality of the act he desires? After refusing to accept this booking, I spent some time pondering and profiling the client who requested it and came up with only one positive that could possibly come from an escort accepting to role play this fantasy with this client. The positive is that the client is acting out this fantasy in a legal manner with a consenting adult (although dressed as a young girl) as opposed to attempting to achieve sexual gratification by committing the gut wrenching and illegal sin of raping a minor. I pose the following question to my readers: Are escorts keeping would-be pedophiles off the streets? I will leave this for your comments.
Scenario 6 - the Submissive, is a classic text book case of low self esteem, low self worth and usually stems from childhood experiences, whereby the submissive male finds sexual gratification by being abused by a powerful woman. The experience triggers positive memories or feelings that usually include acceptance, and approval for good behaviour from a dominant female figure in his life (usually the mother). Once upon a time, these positive feelings simply made his heart warm or a smile to appear on his face, but as an adult, the need for sexual gratification is desired. Being the only way the youngster ever felt positive reinforcement, being abused now illicit feelings of sexual stimulation and personal satisfaction. My only concern with this scenario is that theory shows that behaviour is usually repeated and thus the cycle may continue into the next generation. This is an emotionally unhealthy frame of mind.
Looking forward to your comments.
Holly Jacques xx