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Blurred Lines


ian80au

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I've been intrigued by some of the threads on Punter Planet lately about various aspects of this business.

 

Namely one in relation to a punter falling for a WL or visa versa or about experiences in general. There is no doubt that sometimes that line between it being being a business transaction and a sexual experience with emotions get crossed and undoubtedly causes Blurred Lines. It's just human nature.

 

The colourful American wresting identity Jimmy Cornett once described the wrestling business as being neither fish nor fowl, meaning I suppose in that it isn't a genuine sporting contest as it has predetermained outcomes but at the same time it's not a full on drama performance like in a TV soap or something. Well you can say the same thing about the sex industry in that when you have a booking with a WL, you'd like to think that it isn't a cold clinical business transaction, but by the same token it isn't sex with your wife or girlfriend with genuine intimacy either.

 

In my experience too that a good GFE WL is a very good actress that for the time you're with her makes you feel like a king. However a punter you have to play your part too and be able to suspend your disbelief. You still need to keep your head screwed on and not allow the lines to be blurred. Even though human nature can make that easier said than done especially if like me you want the lady you're with to enjoy the time with you and for her to get off.

 

Have to admit that I wholeheartedly agree with one punter who compared making a phone call to a private WL as being like being a 15 year old wanting to call a girl you like and want to take to the movies, I couldn't have put it any better myself. But getting a booking with them is a little like finding out said girl likes you too and as your wait for her to come to ykou or on your way to her premises is like that anticipation of going out with her.

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surface_tension

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It's funny how some PWL's demand to be treated like Girlfriends but charge like a premium business

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Serena Vincente

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its funny how 50 + find funny when a 20+ charges for a top GFE and does not do it for free! Sorry but come on! Really?

 

 

As for the original post, I personally cant act. I tend to have a connection with my friends and if that connection is not there then we are not suited. it does not need to be love or anything close. In my view it is more of a connection of the mind which enhances everything else and hince I call them special friends, because they become as time goes by.

 

not sure if it answer to this blog? x

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I don't think really great casual sex or great connection equals an ACT. Maybe if you believe connections only happen or would/should only happen in monogamous long term relationship. I certainly don't believe that. 

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surface_tension

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its funny how 50 + find funny when a 20+ charges for a top GFE and does not do it for free! Sorry but come on! Really?

 

 

I don't even know what you said there....

 

O_o

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Pretty much the WL likes sex and enjoys it and gets paid for yoou to like it too. Enjoy it for waht it is...a pleasant business transaction

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I so relate to the phone call scenario, I do feel like I am back in high school asking for a date i sound so nervy, so i mainly communicate by email or text.

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I so relate to the phone call scenario, I do feel like I am back in high school asking for a date i sound so nervy, so i mainly communicate by email or text.

Hence why that time I got worried that I'd come across as a crank. But I'm sure the best operators can tell the difference between a crank and a guy who is just shitting himself. I find it amazing how once you start chatting with her that all the nerves seem to disappear.

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It is a commercial transaction. Enjoy it for what it is.

 

A comfortable, relaxed session with a wl who is good company can be a most enjoyable and at best an immersive experience with very little emotional involvement on either side.

 

There is no need for nervousness or performance anxieties or "to do lists".

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