SEXTING
Entry posted by NaylaD
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Hellos again,
This idea of writing about sexting, amongst other blog entries I have in mind. Came up during a conversation in a PP chat room. After someone came in and told me, hey Nayla, I really liked your blog; you write like in a journalistic way, or some sort of thing like that. Anyhooo … I was like WOTF? He explained, very personal … Well that is the idea, I guess 
So, we brainstormed for a while about possible ideas for my next entry. And all from a sudden this topic one popped up in my mind strongly. Why? Well, let’s say that I am a bit busted … I was sexting with someone for 1 hour and so … not that I checked on the time. Anyways, it doesn’t matter how I know it.
Personally I am a shy lady, very shy … people makes jokes of it because no one can tell that I am blushing. But honestly, working in the adult industry for a while (5 months) has boosted my ego and my shyness is there, somewhere. Sometimes I am even scared of me 
(marketing myself).
So going to what matters , sexting . What is sexting to you?
I looked up for sexting definition @ urbandictionary and it turns out to be “the act of text messaging someone in the hopes of having a sexual encounter with them later; initially casual, transitioning into highly suggestive and even sexually explicit”. Interesting definition hey? At least for me it was, as I would thought of something like a textual dirty talking.
Why sexting? For me for various reason, as they follow: improves my sexual communications skills (practice to dirty talking as I am not good at it), secondly I like to tease (or to pretend that I am doing it), thirdly I can express what I want and how I want (unfortunately is not always possible to express all in it), fifth I think it is building my sexual confidence (as I feel really confident in writing about things that I have experienced, and last but not least you get to know what your partner likes, and finally it creates the exact amount of sexual tension that you need for an encounter. I find this particular interesting, in long-term arranged bookings; sexual tension for me is different from expectation (I associate expectations very strongly to reviews, go figure why 
), but sexual tension, is about you having that person doing all of the described (actually more sometimes) actions that you have been describing to each other, to look forward to meet and be there with that someone (I am not talking about falling in love, no thanks), it is about having your breathe becoming heavier, your pussy wet and tighter at the thought of how delicious spending time with you partner will be. And for those who don’t have a pussy, sorry but I can’t describe how you would feel will all this sexual tension.
To create the right amount of sexual tension sexting doesn't need to be explicit, raunchy, PSE or XXX rated ... it can have just the minimum but essential information such as the little small things that turns you on like a kiss on your neck, a trimmed (and organized beard) caressing your back (not disclosing it all here) or to tell in which position, which angle, how many finger, where to place the tongue ... Well the tone of the language you use might also play a role.
Now looking back, I think there is a fine line between sexting and writing dirty ... maybe the tone, maybe more. Contributions?
I don't want to be toooooooo long, boring and exhaustive ... so I will try to just keep it straight and objective (just a plan)
Looking forward reading your feedback.
P.S: i know this is not funny as my previous postings, but hey ... Sometimes I am serious
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