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Lovers in "Love"


NaylaD

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Hello my dear PPs readers,

 

I bet I am not the only girl, who have been under this situation, but as usual I like to share my experience in my short period being a WL.

 

I have met amazing guys, some tall, some shorter (than me), some roundy, some slim, some cheeky, some serious, some young and some mature; but all of them have one thing in common: a heart and a brain :P

Actually, they more than one thing in common, but I don't want to talk about sizes, shapes and colors, right? As this is not the topic of my post, at least not today.

 

I have experienced a few great moments of companionship with my dearest favorite and lovely gent's which I don't regret; but with some the so called "CLICK" happens, to my luck it happens on their side. When they or I realize, they are texting you, calling you, messaging (facebook or email), and then it gets to a day when they say "I love you" or "I like you too much".

 

My first reaction, is to be happy to have someone that caters to me, withouth realizing that the guy means it for real, and not only for the time that you might have spent together and that was enough to make him start thinking of me often. Some can control it, and only show to me how much they cater when we meed, and I know it when they start talking about making love, and not having sex instead some others they just show because they are not afraid to hide it or they don't realize it; i don't know, just a guess from a newbie (as an escort not in relationships) :rolleyes:

 

How do I manage these situations? is a question that I am still trying to find out and I also try to understand how a few hours are enough to create such feelings.

 

Once I saw a documentary, that was showing that during sex the hormones produced and the levels, are very similar to those produced when you are "in love", hence the sensation. Will this be the answer?

 

I don't know, I get confused or I am confused. Not saying tho, that I don't like it, is the other way, I am "Loving it", but it is complicated to think that I am not taking advantage in such a moment of "confusion" or "wickness" or purely "love".

 

But one thing I know, I love having my dear gents pampering, spoiling, catering and complimenting me; regardless their "love" feelings for me.

 

 

Well, I think I wrote too much,

Laters

 

Looking forward hearing feedbacks.

 

P.S: does this goes both ways (WL falling for customers too)?

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Never get involved with your clients, ergo clients should never get involved with your WL.

 

It would ruin a perfectly good business arrangement.

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MelbournePunting

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Never get involved with your clients, ergo clients should never get involved with your WL.

 

It would ruin a perfectly good business arrangement.

 

This is definitely the answer.

 

However

 

You're making the man feel things that should come naturally, should come from someone who really is in love with him in return, but being a business transaction (as bad as that may sound, I don't like saying it, I know it is, but it shouldn't be), you know the 'rules', but as you said, if there is something in him (or her, as a client?) that  you invoke, then its bound to happen.

 

At that point, only you will know whether or not to pull the plug, or not?

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I've had a few ladies say to me from the very start don't ask me out or fall in love with me Brutal but honest sometimes you have to be up front cheers Nayla

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Never get involved with your clients, ergo clients should never get involved with your WL.

 

It would ruin a perfectly good business arrangement.

I know, it would ruin a business. But how do you avoid it from happening? How do you avoid liking someone? Never happened to me, luckily :D

 

 

 

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This is definitely the answer.

 

However

 

You're making the man feel things that should come naturally, should come from someone who really is in love with him in return, but being a business transaction (as bad as that may sound, I don't like saying it, I know it is, but it shouldn't be), you know the 'rules', but as you said, if there is something in him (or her, as a client?) that  you invoke, then its bound to happen.

 

At that point, only you will know whether or not to pull the plug, or not?

 

I think I should start treating you guys like crap ... Hahahaha, just kidding of course, love to spoil and give a great time to my gents. And I agree with you, if something is bound to happen, nothing will change it from happening.

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I've had a few ladies say to me from the very start don't ask me out or fall in love with me Brutal but honest sometimes you have to be up front cheers Nayla

 

Ski, I think I will start advertising that as well. Hahahaha, what do you think?

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I'm not sure about 'loving' the lady's I share my encounters with, but I confess to losing myself in the fantasy, even infatuation during our times together. Maybe for me it's the idea, the idea of sharing more than my boundaries permit, but I can see how one could mistake those desires for love.

 

Interesting blog, thank you Nayla it's certainly made me think :)

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Interesting blog, thank you Nayla it's certainly made me think :)

 

Thank your for sharing your view, and definately for me is a subject that requires "attention", as you said it can be easily mistaken or ....

 

Cheers

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P.S: does this goes both ways (WL falling for customers too)? 

Yes it does. It has happened to me with a regular. And like you, I wonder how to manage this. I understand what gave rise to her feelings for me, and of course I am flattered by it.

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Yes it does. It has happened to me with a regular. And like you, I wonder how to manage this. I understand what gave rise to her feelings for me, and of course I am flattered by it.

 

How did you manage it, did you marry her? :P

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Scarlet London

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I definitely agree that being upfront is best, I also found that timing was also a good buffer. I would book my regular clients further apart and the separation helped in some cases, but not always!

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I definitely agree that being upfront is best, I also found that timing was also a good buffer. I would book my regular clients further apart and the separation helped in some cases, but not always!

 

Scarlet dear, how did booking clients apart helped? I got a bit confused

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I fell in love with one of my clients... it's not unknown or impossible.  

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I fell in love with one of my clients... it's not unknown or impossible.  

 

How did you manage it Juliette?

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CaptainDarling

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There was a nice line in a movie I watched recently where an older guy gave advice to a younger guy saying 'We accept the love we believe we deserve'.

 

I had a bit of a moment when I watched that, as it explained to me why so many girls I grew up that really needed a good man, would go looking or be attracted to exactly the worse possible kind of man for them.

 

After these ladies crashed and burned a dozen times you would think they would lose interest in 'Players' and go more for a 'Stayer'.

 

Apparently not.

 

Like any addict seeking out a dealer - they longed to feel the rush of being 'in love' again.

 

One particular lady that I'm thinking of managed to settle down and leave her wild-child past in the past. She's pretty bored with it though, and mainly sticks to the plan for her kids. I'm guessing she will have multiple affairs when it gets all too beige.

 

Speaking for myself, I'm frequently in love with my sex partners.

 

I usually don't spend enough time with them to get irritated at their faults and imperfections, or for them to be bugged by all of mine. It's like a holiday romance. We can each be on our best behaviour for a series of short times, because we know we don't have to keep it up for long.

 

This is very different from getting a mortgage together or bringing the lady back to meet my wife and saying 'She followed me home. Can I keep her'?

 

Good luck with your journey.

 

You are very hot so your life will probably be much easier than mine ;)

 

Beautiful people get a lot of free stuff and are forgiven nearly as quickly as they can make mistakes.

 

Cheers

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Hello Leela,

 

Thank you for your comment and for your honesty. Sincerely, I have hear of girls like that and I have close friends that are in similar situation; they don't value them selves enough, in my opinion.

 

Well, in regards to the last part of your comment, time is definately a factor that contributes for this acute "love" phase I think, as it is not enough to know people's imperfections and all the other stuff that we are and have But I am still fascinated by the reasons why it can happen in such a very short period of time.

 

Life is what we make of it Leela! ;)

 

Cheers and thank you!

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feel free to fall in love with me ;)

 

The only thing I need is for us to meet!

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The key to a great encounter is having a solid connection.

 

This naturally means sometimes the lines can be a little blurred on either or both sides, There's more than one topic in PP on this.

 

I wish you well on your journey of discovery.

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 sometimes the lines can be a little blurred on either or both sides

 

That is the thing, how do you manage blurr lines? Is not easy, as you don't want to be rude or missunderstood, in my opinio ;)

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