here I am decided to share with you, some of my not so pleasant experiences with guys and their nasty body odours.
According to the wikipedia "hygiene is a set of practices performed for the preservation of health", for me that is quite a "medical or health" definition, as in my opinion hygiene is not only essential for health but is equally important to:
1. keep your social network,
2. make a statement or a first impression
3. a groomed guy, will have me turning my head at him
I love perfumes, colognes, creams, oils, soaps, gels and whatsoever is needed to keep my appearance looking "clean"; and most of the times these products (not the highly renowned ones) are quite affordable, let's say. Anyways, this is not about me, is about them. Let me focus again ...
I have a very sensitive nose, so I can detect a bad breathe, as soon as the guy opens his mouth to say "hi", so, if this happens I already know NO KISSING at all on that guy
Then you think with yourself, that is not too bad, let's get him undressed and get ready for some action (although I love kissing, I have to sacrifice that). By the time you untie his shirt and he his lifting his arms, you detect a not so fresh odour coming from his underarms; i start desesperating. Skiping to his his trouser, then knickers and shoes and you can a bit dizzy with the mix of odour coming from feet, underarms and the guy hasn't realized that you are avoiding his kisses, by giving him your neck. Anyways
Since he is already mid-awake, as soon as you approach for a hand or BJ, you realize that cheesy/moisty/ mouldy smell coming from him.
In my mind, I am not focused anymore on what I should be doing with him, my mind has changed and I am thinking with my nipples "does this guy ever shower, cleans himself or ever knows that it needs to be done" before a lady pays him a visit?
The same way it would be a BIG turn off for them, to reveive a visit from a not refreshed lady they should understand that the same happens with us, or they think we have no olfact?
Anyways, i found myself in some of this delicate situations a few times and I didn't know how to tell the guy GO for a shower NOW and then we can enjoy ourselves without being rude or ruining the moment.
Any ideas or suggestion??