Beware Of The Scammers
I wrote and published this a few years ago but still has relevance now
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In my pursuit of trying to find a permanent lady friend to share my life with I've signed up to a number of free Personal sites. Well recently on one of them I've become the target of what seems to me to a scam. It seems that there are some "women" who have pics of good looking ladies and then basically try to tell you all that you want to hear, will say they love you and have fallen for you.
Their profiles say they're in Australia, The UK or the US but when you start talking to them they say they're in Ghana.
The snag comes when they try on some kind of sob story in a bid to try and get you to send them money. In my cases to buy a web cam or to pay their Internet bill. It smells like the Nigerian Letter Scam if you ask me.
Then the other day I had a really bizarre scenario. in that a woman in the Philippines wanted offered me a private web cam showing the started to pretend to have hunger pains saying all her money was gone and that she wanted me to help he get some food. Thing is she claimed she was on her own but I saw somebody’s arm in the background earlier on in the piece
Well I am smart enough to have snuffed that out and nipped it in the bud. Suffice it to say I didn't send them any money. But it just makes me sad to think that their are blood sucking parasites out there who prey on lonely hearts.
A mate of mine had a similar thing happen a couple of years ago. Except in his case it was a Russian Woman. Thankfully he also nipped that one in the bud too. In fact he found out after the fact that she was on a blacklist.
Whilst I'm trying to find somebody locally it seems that most of the women who contact me have been either these Ghanans or are in the Philippines. If they are local they’re already taken and I think I make it quite clear that I'm not interested if they’re already taken and am not looking for platonic friendship.
Man it's hard. Maybe that's why I love that song Fall For You by Secondhand Serenade so much.
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Footnote: Still no luck on eHarmony. A site I joined thinking it was for people who were serious about finding love. Only reason I haven't given up and become a punter for life is because there are things I want in life that WLs can't give me
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